Perhaps exaggerated conformism, along with fear, are the greatest dream thieves of mankind. There are many things that we can not change and with which we will have to conform, but there will always be a lot to be won, dared, overcome, questioned, turned inside out, because that is how everything moves to tomorrow. Therefore, we can not confuse what we deserve with what we accept.
We can never accept gratuitous offense’s from those who barely know us, even from those who are near. There are people who discount their frustrations and their personal cowardice in those who have nothing to do with their storms, distributing bad moods to go by. We can not accept that.
We can not, in any way, accept any violence, nor the psychological one, which is hidden behind looks, behaviors , speeches and silences. There are people who can get violent with attitudes, often in a much more painful way than physical aggression. We can not be victims of it.
We can never accept to confuse our solicitude with bondage, to enslave our aid, to make our detachment a perennial obligation. There are people who are unaware of gratitude, wanting more always, taking whatever they can from those who want to help, including revolting if all their desires are not met. We can not be conniving with this.
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No We can not accept that the look of the other is stronger than our innermost truths. There are people who will never understand us, or at least try, labeling each attitude of ours pejoratively, diminishing our dreams, our hopes, our achievements. We can not stay with those who do not support us.
We can not, for a second, accept love of the pieces, crumbs of feelings, to the point of having to beg for existing, for being someone. There are people who do not give themselves away, they do not give themselves, fangs that are inside the walls of their own world, from where they will never leave, for there their selfishness feeds on itself, without external interferences, which are not acceptable in that whole pride. Let us not tarry near them.
If we conform to everything, accepting what is bad and not brought to us because we ask, we will walk slowly, incomplete and half our dreams, our potential. To accept what can not be changed is wisdom, but to fight for what can be much better is protagonism, it is survival, it is self-love. It is what will save us from death in life. Let’s live!
