There is a concept in the mind of some persons that when a person fails, his Success starts from there. When a child fails then need arises to find the reasons which led to his failure. Next a child must try to find his weak areas or what wrong had been committed by him which restrained him from Success. Then child must try to improve in such weak areas and also he must try to improve his understanding ability so that whatever he may read ,he may be able to understand and remember it for a long time.
A child must prepare for e-Examination in future in such a way so the the reasons or mistakes which led to his failure may not be repeated again. Child must be able to enhance his efficiency so that he may be able to write in the Examination then with the grace of Almighty no child will fail again in the Examination.
As soon as a child seeks admission in LKG/UKG or First primary as the case may be , right at that time a co-ordination must be established between teachers and parents. When a teacher starts teaching to a child, the Alphabets in English , Hindi or Urdu must be taught to him properly so that he can recognise all types of Alphabets in an excellent and efficient manner. Thereafter combination of words must be taught to the children and writing capacity and correct pronunciation must be taught and enhanced simultaneously. When the child will be taught by applying latest methods then child will start reading , writing and proper understanding. His interest in studies will increase day by day.
For teaching Maths to a child which is in fact an easiest Subject , child must be taught ten digits which are also known Alphabets of Maths . Thereafter counting up to hundred must be taught gradually and gradually to the child by applying the different latest methods of teaching . A most appropriate method to teach a child properly is that small card may be prepared and Alphabets of English , Hindi or Urdu and counting of Maths up to hundred be written on such cards. When a child recognise all types of Alphabets and counting number, he must be given opportunities to play with these cards. All cards must be mixed first in a heap and child must be given the task of searching cards bearing particular alphabets or digit/ numbers . This will provide an opportunity of playing to the child and then proper recognition of alphabets , digits and numbers properly and correctly.
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Besides it is necessary that teacher must teach the students with full dedication, interests and devotion. For this prestigious or pious Job teachers must be regular and punctual in performing their legitimate duties. All the teachers must teach the children with fear of Almighty Allaha in their mind. Children weak in studies must be identified and then extra period/classes must be arranged / organised for improvement or enhancement of their learning level. If there is a particular reason due to which a child does not take requisite interest in studies then teacher must find appropriate solution to this problem. If there are some reasons which are beyond the control of teacher concerned then he must seek help of School level, Zonal or District level guidance and counselling teams for redressal of all such problems of particular category of children.
Teacher must use some appropriate methods/principle for teaching the students which are mentioned here in below:
• From easy to difficult
• From known to unknown
• From simple to complex
• Lecturer Method
• Discussion method
• Problem solving method
• Inductive Method
• Deductive method
• Analytic method
• Synthetic Method
• Question-answer method
• Project method
• Observation Method
• Story Telling method
• Laboratory method
• Dramatic method
• Recitation method
• Text Book method
• Skill development method
• Principle of thinking
• Principle for searching Alternative
Besides Instrinstic motivation, Extrinsic method Law of exercise are some other method which are useful for proper learning processes. Now teacher must decide appropriate methods from the above methods which must suit to the learning interests of the child.
Parents must also play their particulat role in the study of the child from the very beginning. They must send the child daily to School, must keep the child busy after and before School hours fo a particular time as advised by the teacher. Parent must go to School at least once in every weak in order to know the interest of the child in studies and his performance in the class. Weakness of the child can be improved with the joint efforts of teacher and parents. When child will receive due attention of parents and students from very beginning then certainly requisite interest for studies will be created in the child. Now the atmosphere of the School must be so congenial, peaceful and most appropriate for the child that he must prefer to go to School instead of remaining with his mother. This would be possible if when child will receive love and affection more then his mother but this would be possible only when love of teacher will be more than his mother .
When Maths would be taught properly four fundamental operations and “BODMAS” with special attention and division to such extent that child must be able to solve any problem of Maths involving these operations with requisite speed and time.
There after practice method must have been applied for clearing various concept then certainly interest would have been created in the mind of the child from the very beginning. At home a child remains for more time with his mother who is always most sympathetic with the child . Thus teacher must be equal or more sympathetic with the child with due love and affection . All the basic concepts would be clear , requisite interest would have been created. Maths would have been taught properly. Child would prefer to go to School then to remain at home , he will not face any problem in studies and will learn with full interest and will work hard.
Parents must play their requisite role of keeping the child busy in studies according to the need of the child so that he can achieve required learning level . when a child prepares at home daily whatever he has been taught at school and keeps a pace with intelligent students of the class then he can become extra-ordinary intelligent .It has been observed that in rural and farflung areas the children depends on class room teaching learning only but do not have habit of reading at home and thus do not prepare whatever have been taught in the class/school because either the child do not have sitting habit or do not have sufficient reading habit. But such sitting or reading habit must be according to the need and requirement of the child so that he may become intelligent from the very beginning then certainly child must not face any problem in studies . Under such circumstance child must daily go to School happily according to his own choice or desire but not following any compulsion from the parents .
When the base of the child must become strong from the very beginning ,ability of thinking and decision making will be developed in the child , when child will understand requisite importance of Education ,when all the benefits of studies will be taught to the child then there will be no problem for the child in studies.
when a child passes fifth primary then three beautiful aims must be selected for the child keepping in view his ability , interest and efficiency . It is necessary to select three aims for the child because when a single aim would have been selected and due to competition or some other reasons child will not be able to achieve such single aim then he will be discouraged severely which can further badly affect his mind, efficiency and interest of competition for some good post but on the other hands out of three aims the child will certainly receive at least one beautiful aim goal or post . when there would be a beautiful goal this will not let the child to sleep till he will achieve it.
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Moreover , more beautiful is the goal of the child he will do the more sincere efforts to achieve such goal. Besides when child would be knowing the importance and benefits of working on a higher post of his choice then child will continue his hard efforts to achieve such higher post.
When basic knowledge of the child will be strong he will take extra interest in his studies in order to achieve such beautiful post very easily which would have been fixed by his parents for him. It has been observed that when a more beautiful goal is liked by the child himself then as much as the goal is beautiful that much hard efforts will be done by the child to achieve such beautiful goal.
when due interest is created in a child towards the studies but his base in the studies is weak then first his learning level must be enhanced . Thereafter an interest to achieve a beautiful goal must be created in his mind that get him mentally prepared for achieving such beautiful goal so that he must properly understand the importance and benefits of such profession or cadre then no pressure will be built in his mind while reading and writing .when a child could not secure good Marks but when he understands the reasons or mistakes then he will certainly try his level best that such mistakes are not repeated in future but he will try to secure good Marks in future.Hence parents and teacher must extend all possible help to the child In improving his weakness and also in changing such habits which led the child to commit such mistakes.
Now it would be seen that a child suicides on failing in the examination or on securing less Marks but when child would have been taught properly as discussed above in details then with the Grace of Almighty he will not fail or will secure good Marks thus child will not commit suicide. Here a child must be taught importance of efficiency over good marks then child will try to become efficient . Besides such a profession or a cadre must be selected for the child keeping in view his efficiency and efficiency required to achieve such profession or cadre then child will not be disturbed because a child is mentally disturbed only when profession or cadre chosen for him is not in consonance with his efficiency, ability and interest.
Every year guidance and counselling must be given to the children and this must be a continue process . when values like tolerance and patience would have been incalculated in the children then they will tolerate any type of situation .It is also necessary that interest may also be created in the children for opting the profession like IT I trade, physical Education , type test or business etc keeping in view their interest in such areas so that by working in such areas they will become earning hand or can serve the society.
But when despite of these facts it would have been known to the child that after failure journey starts toward a success or beautiful goal then child will never under take such harsh decision and will tolerate the
It is good that guidance and counselling committees/cells have been constituted in High Higher, Secondary Schools ,at Zonal and District level in DIETs then Divisional level in Directorate . It becomes fundamental duties of HOIS or committee heads to give proper guidance and counselling to the children for hard work , for reducing pressure or to overcome problems if any so that pressure built in their mind can be removed . Similar guidance and counselling is required to be given to the parents so that due to interest, desire or any kind of behaviour or dealing of the parents no pressure is built on the mind of the child. It is necessary to teach the child that if he would have acquired sufficient Academic or professional qualification then he can too lead a happy and prosperous life without achieving higher post or goal.
If all those who have a link with the child may play their appropriate role then any negative though will not developed in the mind of children.
The purpose of writing this Article is to make aware all parents and teacher that if they will take due care of their children beautiful like flowers and students respectively then children will acquire higher Education but will not take any wrong step and will serve the society and Nation after becoming sufficient intelligent, will achieve some beautiful goal or cadre for serving the society with the grace of Almighty, there will not be a question of committing suicide by students on this earth .
Author is a Principal HSS Budhal. He can be contacted at email@example.com